Lead yourself.
Understand each other.
Grow from within.
Self-leadership for young adults and their environment
In motion
Growth starts here
Growing up can feel like drowning in noise, opinions, and expectations. Sometimes you lose yourself and don’t know which way to turn.
As a parent, you watch your child struggle and want nothing more than to help but how?
I guide young people and their parents to uncover what often stays hidden. Not with quick fixes, but with real tools to create calm, connection, and trust.
IMPACTOGROW
Growth from within
Young people
who are looking for direction, themselves, or peace of mind.
Parents
who want to connect, support, and have deeper talks with their child.
Organisations & schools
that invest in self-leadership, resilience, and communication for young people or young employees.
Change from within
This is how I can help you
- Self-leadership – making choices that truly fit you
- Emotional regulation – learning to feel, process, and let go
- Communication – expressing yourself clearly and understanding others
- Identity – discovering who you are, apart from expectations
- Breaking patterns – stopping what is holding you back
Programs
Guidance for and with young people
Workshops & training
- For schools, colleges, and youth teams (vocational, higher education, or companies).
- Topics like self-leadership, DISC & communication, emotional regulation, and mindset.
- Guest lessons, workshops, project days, or programs.
- Focus on connection, reflection, and practical tools.
Incompany programs
- For organisations that want to invest in young employees.
- Personal leadership, motivation, and resilience.
- Tailor-made in co-creation with HR, managers, or coaches.
- For onboarding, talent development, or team growth.
Speaker at events
- For schools, parents, or companies that want to inspire and go deeper.
- Self-leadership for a new generation.
- Why young people are not ‘stuck’ but overwhelmed.
- Communication, identity, and inner strength.
Individual coaching
- For young people or young adults who want to grow and find direction.
- Personal sessions tailored to your situation.
- Space to feel, reflect, and make choices.
- Practical tools for more calm, confidence, and focus.
Reviews
#Proud
Grateful for the people and companies I was able to guide, and proud of the growth they have achieved.
A SHORT INTRODUCTION
Hi, I'm Kaj
“To be the coach I once needed.” That was, and still is, my motivation behind ImpactoGrow.
From an early age, I learned to put on a strong face. To take the lead. To keep going, no matter what. First on the work floor, later even within international teams. On the outside, I looked confident. On the inside, I often felt searching, restless, and tired.
As if I had to run faster and faster just to keep from falling apart.
Until I discovered that the greatest act of leadership wasn’t outside of me, but within. I had to learn to pause instead of always running harder. To feel instead of trying to control everything.
My ADHD was not an excuse, but a compass. It showed me what drove me, where I got stuck, and where my strength lay. My beliefs held up a mirror, sometimes painful, but always honest. That’s how I discovered what self-leadership truly means. Not losing yourself in the expectations of others. Not fighting every day just to keep up. But learning to choose, step by step. Consciously. With feeling. Connected.
Today, I guide young people, parents, and organisations through that same process. Because I recognise the pressure young people grow up with: the constant noise, the feeling of never being enough, the search for identity and stability. And I recognise the helplessness of parents who want to support their child, but don’t always know how.
My approach doesn’t come from a book. I share my own lived experience, strengthened with tools that truly work: NLP, DISC, and hypnosis. Together, we bring to light what often remains hidden. Not to work harder, but to understand better. Because real change doesn’t begin with doing more. It begins with coming home to yourself.
In motion
Growth starts here
- Do you want to know yourself better and take steps in your development?
- Do you see your child or team member struggling?
- Or are you, as an organisation, looking for ways to truly help young people grow?
